Sparkle Stories — An Alternative to Screen Time

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Over the next month, we at Kerry Moller at Associates have decided to share a series of blog posts about some of our most recent, favourite podcasts. Podcasts are like pre-recorded radio shows without the commercials or live callers—it’s just you, quietly listening to your favourite author, public figure, or spiritual teacher while in transit or resting at home. Listening to podcasts is a great alternative to spending idle time in front of a screen, especially for your children.

Screen time is defined as the amount of time you spend in front of an electronic screen: texting, updating your social media, watching TV, streaming movies from Netflix, or checking and responding to emails. Many people in our society are becoming increasingly aware of the feelings of disconnection and fatigue that arise from too much screen time. Notably, the risks that come with extended screen time are far greater when it comes to children and youth.

Statistics say that more than half of all the one year old babies in America spend an average of 2 hours a day in front of television or iPad screens. By the time these babies are preschool-aged, hours of screen time double. Some data suggests that children from 2-5 years in age spend as much as 4-4.6 hours a day in front of a screen.

Studies show that screen time is habit-forming: the more time young children spend in front of screens, the harder it is for them to turn them off and engage their brains in different ways as they become older. In pre-teens and adolescents, excessive screen time is linked to psychological challenges including hyperactivity, emotional and social challenges, and poor performance at school.

Enter Sparkle Stories. Sparkle Stories is an independent media company that offers hundreds of original audio stories for children through their website and podcast. These stories are simple, but engaging. Busy parents find relief knowing they can play these commercial-free stories for their children while preparing dinner or attending to household chores. Other parents love sitting down with their kids and savouring these tender tales together.

We hope all the parents out there reading this will enjoy this resource: Sparkle Stories

Additionally, here is some research on the benefits of reduced screen time:

  • Reducing screen time can help prevent childhood obesity
  • Children who spend less time in front of screens in early years tend to do better in school, have healthier eating habits, and be more physically active
  • Screen time at a young age is associated with later behavioural problems, but not if heavy viewing is discontinued before age six
  • Limiting exposure to television during the first 4 years of life may decrease children’s interest in it in later years

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Finding Stability in Turbulence

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Have you ever found that when you most need to show up for yourself, you can’t? Many people grow up without the opportunity to develop reliable inner resources to lean on during times of upheaval and turbulence. Typical meditation teachings do not always work for those struggling emotionally or mentally. We hope you enjoy this free, online, 4-part video series exploring ways to tailor your mindfulness practice to help you heal from anxiety, depression, and unresolved trauma.

Link: Michael Stone on Finding Stability in Turbulence: Meditating When Things Get Tough

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New habits for the New Year

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Too often we battle against our habits. We muscle our grip against engrained impulses, try to quit cold turkey, dissect our habits under a microscope, and analyze our behaviour to death. Neuroscience has now explained to us what Buddhist monks have known for centuries: we can’t just fight against, undo or delete our habits; we can only create new ones to take their place.

As the New Year comes in, make the most of being a creature of habit! Instead of making New Years resolutions about abstinence, quitting, and deprivation, lay the foundations for wellness and thriving by cultivating habits of happiness. Choose just 1-5 of these 25 habits of happiness from R.L Adams and practice as often as possible. Don’t beat yourself up if you can’t practice these every day, and don’t lose faith if it feels awkward at first. It is only with practice that habits become engrained and feel ‘natural’. With dedication and an appetite for imperfection, these habits of happiness can become as effortless as brushing your teeth before bed!

For more inspiration, check out this Ted Talk by biochemist-turned-Buddhist Monk, Matthieu Ricard, on how to train your mind into habits of well-being.

We at Kerry Moller & Associates are wishing you a happy and healthy 2017!

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The Space Between Stories

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So often, our clients come to us during the tumultuous times of transition, where an old story, job, relationship, or way of being has crumbled, and a new path has yet to emerge. It can be challenging to find the patience and steadfastness to sit with the discomfort that arises in this delicate yet essential limbo period. Being able to simply be and explore this space between stories opens rich opportunities for transformation. As Lisa Rankin, MD., says “Remember, something new is being born inside of you, and you can’t rush gestation.”

We hope you enjoy Lisa Rankin’s writing on The Space Between Stories below:

http://lissarankin.com/the-space-between-stories

Welcome to the blog of Kerry Moller & Associates

Welcome to the blog of Kerry Moller & Associates! We are a group of Registered Clinical Counsellors and Registered Psychologists providing therapy services in Vancouver, BC. We are committed to helping people create lasting change in the way they experience their lives and relationships. This post marks the launch of our very own blog. Going forward, we will be using this blog to share reflections, insights, articles, pieces of inspiration, updates about our work, and practical tips for navigating the seasons of life. We are grateful for your interest and we welcome your feedback. If there is anything you would like to see or read specifically on this blog, or any questions you want answered, please email kerry@kerrymoller.com. Best wishes from us all, Kerry Moller & Associates therapy in Vancouver

Welcome to the blog of Kerry Moller & Associates! We are a group of Registered Clinical Counsellors and Registered Psychologists providing therapy services in Vancouver, BC. We are committed to helping people create lasting change in the way they experience their lives and relationships.

This post marks the launch of our very own blog. Going forward, we will be using this blog to share reflections, insights, articles, pieces of inspiration, updates about our work, and practical tips for navigating the seasons of life.

We are grateful for your interest and we welcome your feedback. If there is anything you would like to see or read specifically on this blog, or any questions you want answered, please email kerry@kerrymoller.com.

Best wishes from us all,
Kerry Moller & Associates